Neil Jerome Fretheim

Neil Jerome Fretheim, lifetime resident of Grays Harbor passed away on Wednesday, May 6, 2026, at Harbor Regional Health in Aberdeen, Washington.

Born on Aug. 30, 1967, in Aberdeen to Virgil and Shirley Fretheim. Following his graduation, he proudly joined the United States Army, where he faithfully served his country for more than a decade. After his honorable discharge and return to the Harbor, Neil began a long and dedicated career with Stafford Creek Corrections Center as a correctional officer when the facility first opened its doors.

Neil took great pride in serving both his country and community. He was deeply admired and respected by his fellow employees and residents alike for his dedication, strength, fairness, and compassion. Being part of the team at Stafford was something he truly valued and was honored to serve alongside such an incredible group of officers and support staff throughout the years. Neil was a lifelong fan of the Green Bay Packers, never missing a game. Neil’s presence, loyalty, and friendship will greatly be missed by his colleagues, friends, and all those who had the privilege of knowing him.

Neil’s legacy lives on through his four children: Carmen, Jason, Justin, and Kaylan; his sisters, Kim, Debbie, and Karen, and his 7 beloved grandchildren, as well as many extended family and friends who meant so much to him throughout his life.

A celebration of Neil’s life will be held on Sunday, June 14, 2026, from 1 to 4 p.m. located at the Aberdeen Elks Lodge #593. 1712 S. Boone St., Aberdeen, WA 98520.

To leave a memory or note of condolence for the family, please visit www.fernhillfuneral.com.

Arrangements are entrusted to Twibell’s Fern Hill Funeral Home, in Aberdeen, Washington.